How to Discuss Your Herpes Status

It’s not a disclosure, it’s a discussion. Stop looking at this conversation as a confession. We want to make the conversation about sexual health, and let the conversation go into sharing our statuses with one another. This is how you ‘disclose’ your herpes status. The videos below are examples of what this could look like in a variety of scenarios to familiarize yourself with.

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  • What Do You Want in a Relationship?
    4/7/26

    What Do You Want in a Relationship?

    “What do you want?” is and can be a very dreadful conversation on a date especially if you don’t know that, but it’s important to obtain clarity to some kind of extend. Check out Ashley Wang and Courtney Brame’s roleplay navigating that discussion.

  • First Date Herpes Disclosure
    4/7/26

    First Date Herpes Disclosure

    When things are going well on a first date and you want to take things to the next level, sometimes the conversation can be too early, too late, or not happen at all. Here’s a way to bring it up at not THE right time, but A right time.

  • How to Tell Your Partner You Have Herpes
    1/5/26

    How to Tell Your Partner You Have Herpes

    You’re in a relationship, you have a suspicious bump, and you tell your partner. Some days pass, you make your appointment, and you are headed home and as you walk in the door, you check my chart and see that your lil’ bump was actually herpes. Here’s how to tell your partner.