Welcome to the SPFPP Herpes Podcast
Something Positive for Positive People Podcast: Now Live Monthly!
The Something Positive for Positive People podcast is your go-to resource for navigating the stigma associated with STDs/STIs, including herpes, HIV, and HPV. We believe in the power of open conversations, real stories, and expert insights to build a supportive community for everyone affected by these conditions.
Starting in November, the podcast is going live! Join us on the last Tuesday of every month at 8pm Eastern Time for an interactive experience where you can engage with the stories, topics, and experts that matter most to you.
What You'll Find Here
Real Stories: Hear personal experiences from individuals who’ve navigated life with an STD. Their raw, authentic journeys offer valuable lessons and inspiration.
Expert Insights: Learn from healthcare professionals, therapists, and relationship experts who share actionable advice on managing your health, relationships, and mental well-being.
Supportive Community: Connect with others who understand your experiences. Whether listening live or catching the replay, you’ll feel seen, heard, and supported.
Key Topics Covered
Dating with Herpes: Practical tips for disclosing your status and building healthy, honest relationships.
Mental Health: Strategies to cope with the emotional challenges of an STD diagnosis.
Self-Care: Insights on nurturing your physical and emotional health.
Breaking the Stigma: Empowering conversations that challenge societal norms and encourage acceptance.us for the live show on the last Tuesday of every month at
Be part of the conversation that’s changing how we talk about STDs. Don’t miss your chance to connect, learn, and grow with the SPFPP community. Join our monthly newsletter and check the events page to learn how to attend live!
How to Use Our Search Bar
Looking for specific topics? Use our search bar to find episodes that cover the subjects most relevant to you. Simply type in keywords like "disclosure," "self-care," "mental health," or "relationship advice" to access episodes that offer the insights and support you need.
Join Our Community
Our podcast isn't just about listening—it's about connecting. Join our community of listeners who are navigating similar experiences. Share your stories, ask questions, and find the support you need.
If you would like to be a guest on the podcast to share your dating, relationship, and experience navigating stigma, please fill out the intake form below.

SPFPP 367: Herpes and Nonmonogamy - Integrated Identities for Vulnerability
Tamar Weir joins me to talk about navigating herpes and non-monogamy—two things that demand a level of vulnerability most folks aren’t prepared for. We talk about how she’s managed disclosure, not just once, but across multiple relationships, how stigma hits different depending on where you are in the world, and why it’s so exhausting being the person who always has to start the hard conversations. Tamar is a storyteller, writer, and future sex and intimacy coach who brings a lot of softness and honesty to this episode.

SPFPP 350: Nonmonogamous Conversations Monogamous People need to have - part 2
In SPFPP episode 350, our guest shares how her journey through nonmonogamy challenged her understanding of being single and taught her valuable lessons in communication and intentionality. These experiences reshaped her approach to monogamous relationships, highlighting the power of being upfront, emotionally available, and aligned in values. Join us as we discuss how nonmonogamy can provide tools for healthier monogamous relationships

SPFPP 338: Disclosing in nonmonogamy
In this insightful episode of Something Positive for Positive People, dive into the challenges of disclosing in nonmonogamous settings, especially when one partner has herpes. This episode offers a deep dive into the ethics of disclosure, the fear of outing a partner, and strategies to handle potential stigma effectively. Join host Courtney Brame as he explores real-life scenarios, backed by community experiences and expert advice, to provide listeners with a nuanced understanding of navigating these delicate conversations. Whether you're involved in a nonmonogamous relationship or just curious about the dynamics, this episode offers valuable perspectives on maintaining integrity, respect, and openness in discussions about sexual health.