In this vulnerable and eye-opening conversation, I’m joined by Cam Fraser—Australia’s leading Men’s Sex Coach—to unpack the emotional experiences that often get left out of conversations about male sexuality. From shame and pressure to performance and post-sex vulnerability, we explore how men have been conditioned to avoid emotional intimacy, and what it really looks like to reclaim it.

This isn’t just a talk about sex—it’s a deeper dive into what’s underneath it: how men connect, feel, and seek to be seen.

Key Takeaways

• Sexual Shame & Performance Pressure
  Why men often feel disconnected after sex—and how to shift that dynamic.

• From Gratification to Genuine Pleasure
  Redefining sexual connection beyond just the act itself.

• Locker Room Culture & Masculinity
  How sports, competition, and performance messaging distort men’s relationships with their bodies and partners.

• Porn, Conditioning, and Disconnection
  Understanding how porn affects our expectations and emotional regulation.

• Post-Sex Vulnerability
  Why many men “disappear” after sex and how to practice presence instead.