In this honest and necessary conversation from the Black Men’s Emotional Wellness Symposium, Anthony Toney unpacks the ripple effect of absent leadership—especially among Black men—and how its presence (or lack thereof) shapes communities, relationships, and personal growth. This episode isn’t just about leadership in title—it’s about emotional leadership, accountability, and what happens when we don’t have the tools or models to guide us. From therapy as a response to imbalance, to redefining how we show up in brotherhood, Anthony’s insights challenge us to consider what kind of men we’re becoming and how we’re influencing others. Key Takeaways The Impact of Absent Leadership How the lack of healthy masculine leadership affects emotional development and community trust. Redefining Leadership Moving from ego-driven control to presence-based accountability and care. Why Black Men Need Intentional Space The emotional weight of criticism, expectation, and silence—and the freedom of being witnessed. Therapy as a Response to Imbalance Understanding emotional support not as weakness, but as a recalibration of self. Calling In vs. Calling Out How to foster growth in men without shame, and invite leadership through presence.